A support person is someone you choose to accompany you and offer emotional support as you go through a disclosure, report, or investigation related to sexual violence. This can be a friend, family member, Elder, counselor, advocate, or anyone you trust. Their role is to help you feel safe, grounded, and supported—not to speak for you. Remember you will want to select someone whom you feel comfortable knowing the details of the incident or situation, as you may be asked to recount sometimes explicit details during an investigation.
You are welcome to bring a support person to:
- Any meeting about a disclosure or report
- Interviews as part of a college investigation
- Formal proceedings or hearings
- Appeal or follow-up meetings
At the College, a support person:
- Can take notes at meetings
- Assist the student in reviewing institutional policies and procedures
- Assist the student in understanding their rights and responsibilities
- Assist the student in preparing for meetings
- Provide moral and emotional support – before, during and after meetings
- Must keep information shared during a meeting and during the process confidential.
If you don’t have someone in mind, the College may be able to provide you with some recommendations. Please reach out to a Learning Support Specialist for further support (learningsupport@nlc.bc.ca)
What a support person is not:
- A person whom has direct or indirect connection to the matter under investigation (i.e., the complainant, respondent, or a witness in the process)
- a legal representative (unless that is part of their role and permitted by college policy)
- someone who can speak on your behalf during investigations or proceedings
- someone who can stand in for, or represent a student at a meeting, when the student can not be present
- a decision-maker or active participant in the process
- permitted to interrupt or influence the investigation process
Support persons are there for you, and are asked to agree to confidentiality and respectful conduct during any formal processes.
If you’re unsure who can act as a support person or what their role should be, please contact a Learning Support Specialist at learningsupport@nlc.bc.ca —we’re here to support you.
The College reserves the right to dismiss a support person who disrupts the investigation process and who does not adhere to the limitations outlined.